25 July 2007
Should Bf pay for Gf for meal or go dutch?
What u think?
I put that as my msn nick and a few guys msn me and said, "PAY!"
One guy said,"depend"..
Another one said,"i wan my gf pay for me..."
so should bf pay for gf for everything???
Hmmmm...it really depends la..for me..
If u r like me super calculative, paying my own purchase of clothing, personal stuffs n etc..
I thought it is reasonable for the bf to pay the food and entertainment partz..
Food, if it is combined receipt, then the bf should pay la..
it shows the masculine side of a guy mahz..
If it is ordered frm hawker or foodcourt???
If the bf is paying the food, then being a gf, should pay the drink at leastz...
If not, sometime, especially foodcourt, it is alright if go dutch ba..
But of coz, which gurl dun wan the bf to pay everything and save the food expenses for more clothes?
But bo bian mahzzzz..
Bf also not loaded..
Unless urs is rich bf la..then diff case la..
I asked my ex-colleagues and colleagues about that question..
They are in their mid 20s la..
All of them replied that "it depend which stage of the relationship u r in and whether u understood each other financial situation mah...n whether if the guy is rich.."
Then they were saying,"If u ask older woman like 30s, they will say they treat la..y wait for guys to treat..waste time.."
Wah..New age woman sia...
But never debate this with your bf..
Ego vs Saving $..they will b confusedzz..
I tried to debate w my bf..
Then think gt some misunderstanding ba...-_-"
he think i hinting him -_-"
So lame la...
However, he was mentioning that this was the common topic among guys..
Then he were saying if I am tight in cash..muz tell him..
Then i was saying, "if we eat at foodcourt, i will pay myself unless i 4get to draw $ or wat.."
Then he say,"Wah..like that i always bring u go foodcourt eat.."n I say,"Wah..like that i always 4get to draw $.."
So what do u think?