09 September 2007
Auntie Regina's Mailbox
Sigh..
Love is such a complicated and powerful thing..
Love can make anyone confuse, depress, happy, stress and etc.
Love make life go haywired and experience all sort of emotion..
Even the most evil person or some big shot in the parliament will go through that..
They say, "Getting hurt is part & parcel of a relationship and life"..
And all these are caused by the small little words "LOVE" and the feel within the heart...
Some couples fight n fight n fight yet get together n announced each other husband and wife..
Some couples dun fight and got along very well but in the end say sayonara to each other..
Even those get together n get married, there is chances of getting a divorce..
Why?
Why want to hurt the other half, someone you have feel or have loved?
Unintentional hurt?
Arent relationship suppose to be happy?
It's not easy to meet someone that you love and he/she love you too.
No doubt there are billions of people in this world but still, it is not easy.
Some people go into a relationship coz they think they like the gurl/guy..
But in the end cannot commit..
Then wat the point to be together?
In the end either one will get hurt...
Sigh...
Someone asked me..
"Issit better to love someone more or that someone luv u more?"
It depends.
I feel that there is no such thing as equalization in love..
And how we measure love?
All of us have different way of expressing love to each other..
Some people are through verbal; Some people are through physical..
Some do not know how to express, thinking that he/she will know it..
Sigh.
I feel that no matter what outcome or who luv who more..
The most important thing is he/she has tried..
Should appreciate it.
Many relationship do not work out coz we dunno how to appreciate.
We are human beings after all..
Always yearning for more no matter what is given to us..
We are greedy...
WE need to look in between the lines and empathize and feel it..
Feel the effort..
Empathize the feeling he/she dealing..
Communicate it..
It might not 100% guarantee that it will eventually make relationship to work out..
But it helps.
For other case affected by external factor like distance or betrayal or wateva..
We cant help it..
Maybe opening up and talk can help..
I hope all relationship can be a beautiful thing but not something that will cast shadow over ur life..
